Dear beloved girls, You are going to experience racism and racists in your life – unfortunately. When you ask racists to do the right thing, that request typically falls on deaf ears, because they have no idea what doing the right thing means. However, when you hit racists in their pockets and get them fired, […]

Dear sweet girls, Once or twice a year, I spend the weekend with my sister-friends. Our weekends are filled with great discussions, delicious food, laughter, new experiences and relaxation. I hope you will witness and experience REAL friendship and sisterly love – and not that mess on reality TV. In the meantime, I am already […]

Dear girls, I remember when I discovered that Verizon Wireless had been charging me $10 per month for a line that I had deactivated a while ago. The customer service representative tried to give me a hard time. When I asked for her manager, she realized that I am not the one. Her manager found […]

Dear sweet girls, I have the honor of serving as a vice president at a community college. We have more than 17,000 students and five gorgeous campuses. We employ some of the best minds in higher education. I would put our college up against any college or university in the country. Our students are smart, hardworking, […]

Dear girls, Please never judge someone based on material things. There are crappy people who are rich and educated. There are wonderful people who are not rich and not educated. For example, I have a Ph.D. and am a college vice president. My husband – your uncle – has a high school diploma and manages […]

Dear girls, Trust your gut and instincts. If you are self-aware and have done the preparation, your gut will rarely fail you. It’s never too early or too late to learn that lesson. I love you. Your Auntie