You have the Power

Hi, girls.

I have been reflecting on the state of our nation and world, and I keep coming back to one word – women. Some of the most hateful words and deeds come from men – men with wives, daughters and granddaughters.

What does it say about women who have influence over men but do not use it? What does it say about women who listen to the men in their life bash other women, people of color, Muslins and gay people, and they remain silent? What does it say about women who watch their men vote against women’s reproductive rights, and they remain silent?

I am the most influential person in my husband’s life. I am one of the most influential people in my daddy’s life. There is no way that I could or would remain silent if my husband or daddy spewed the kind of hatred that some men spew. There is absolutely no way. 

Women who are not using their power, influence and privilege to influence their men to be good and decent are part of the problem. It’s great to march, protest and speak out. However, their advocacy should start at home with their own families – especially the men in their lives. 

This message is something White women should definitely reflect on – a lot. 

I love you.

#TheTruthIsTheLight